Wear the Opening Line: Meet the Personalized Scan Me Collection
Dating apps made finding people easier—and saying hello harder. The personalized Scan Me Collection turns shirts, tanks and hoodies into wearable opening lines, giving someone a reason to scan, look up and make a move.
The Moment Love Me Stone Became Something You Could Wear
For years, Love Me Stone existed only in words. Essays, ideas, and quiet reminders about living deeply. Today, those words become something you can wear. Discover the story behind the first collection, why Desire Is a Compass became its guiding philosophy, and how clothing can become a daily reminder to trust what keeps calling you.
Would You Choose a Love That Only Lasted One Year?
If you met the love you had always hoped for but knew it would end one year later, would you still choose it? After 82 people answered the question, I found myself thinking less about heartbreak and more about the illusion that anything beautiful was ever meant to last forever.
Alley Oop: Santa Cruz's Best Kept Secret
Some places announce themselves. Alley Oop doesn't. Hidden in downtown Santa Cruz, this moody speakeasy serves cocktails, caviar, and enough intrigue to make an ordinary night feel like a scene from another era. I went for a drink and left feeling like I'd discovered a secret.
Love Yourself Erotically
What if self-love was never supposed to feel like self-improvement? What if it was meant to feel like devotion? This essay is an invitation to stop treating yourself like a project to fix and start romancing your own existence. Light the candle. Buy the flowers. Wear the perfume. Fall madly in love with your life first, and watch how the rest of the world begins to follow.
The Most Expensive Thing You'll Ever Lose Is Yourself
How much of yourself have you negotiated away in the name of "keeping it casual"?
The greatest cost of a situationship isn't the relationship that never happened. It's the quiet erosion of your instincts, your certainty, and the belief that you're worthy of being chosen without ambiguity.
This isn't about modern dating. It's about remembering that love should never require you to become smaller to keep someone around. It's about grieving the version of yourself that settled for confusion and reclaiming the one who knows clarity isn't too much to ask.
The Romantic's Manifesto
We've been taught that romance is something another person gives us.
I don't believe that anymore.
I think it's a way of paying attention. A refusal to rush through ordinary days. A decision to notice beauty before life asks us to.
This is for anyone who wants to live a little slower, love a little deeper, and remember that a beautiful life is built one ordinary moment at a time.
Absence Changes the Scale
I've spent a lot of hours under a tattoo needle, but my last three were different.
My artist used a numbing spray. Every time it wore off, the pain didn't just return... it felt louder.
It made me realize something.
Absence changes the scale.
When you've gone a long time without love, the smallest glimpse of it can feel enormous. A good morning text. A little consistency. Someone remembering your favorite drink.
But maybe it isn't extraordinary.
Maybe the absence of love has simply made the bare minimum feel profound.
Desire Is a Compass
Desire has gotten a bad reputation.
We've been taught to confuse it with greed. To call it impractical. To believe that wanting more somehow makes us ungrateful.
But what if the things that keep calling to you aren't distractions?
What if they're directions?
The cabin. The passport. The garden. The person who makes your nervous system exhale. The life you can't stop imagining.
Some dreams don't disappear because they were never meant to.
Maybe desire was never the enemy.
Maybe it's been trying to lead you home all along.
Fuck Nonchalant - Give me the Wildfire
Somewhere along the way, we started confusing emotional maturity with emotional distance. We wait to text. We pretend we don't care. We play it cool until the spark dies before it ever has a chance to become a fire. Maybe being healthy isn't about feeling less. Maybe it's about being brave enough to feel deeply without apologizing for it. Because life is too short for nonchalance. Give me the wildfire. 🔥
The Things I Hope I Never Get Used To
A love letter to the ordinary moments I hope never become background noise, from Pacific sunsets and cold ocean water to fresh coffee, live music, new books, and the kind of kiss that briefly quiets the world.