Two Things Can Be True at the Same Time
Modern dating has given us endless options, but somehow fewer real connections.
In this deeply personal essay, I explore the contradictions of dating today: wanting love without settling, being confident without being closed off, and embracing both independence and intimacy. It's about why two things really can be true at the same time, and why pretending not to care may be the loneliest part of modern romance.
If you've ever felt like you're doing everything "right" but still wondering where genuine connection went, this one's for you.
Stop Romanticizing Your Life. Start Eroticizing It.
We've been taught to romanticize our lives. Buy the flowers. Light the candle. Chase the aesthetic. But what if we've been aiming at the wrong thing all along?
I'm less interested in making life look beautiful and more interested in feeling it. The warmth of the sun on my skin. Salt in the air. Desire. Pleasure. Presence. The simple, radical act of being fully alive.
It's about sensationThis isn't about sex. . It's about inhabiting your life instead of merely observing it. It's about taking a bigger bite.
Kink Curious by Gigi Engle - Book Review
Kink Curious by Gigi Engle is a compassionate, shame-free guide to understanding desire, consent, and kink with curiosity, care, and emotional safety.